"Falling in love" is an expression I've disliked for many years. It's only when I became sufficiently aware of my emotional health that I started saying: "growing in love." One of the reasons I spent most of my life officially single is that I was paired with individuals that lowered my quality of life. I was wise enough to leave swiftly, but foolish enough to try again, and again, and again... Some learning has occurred in the process, but the hard anchored hopes, and believes about romance lingered. I've been growing steadily in a healthy bound, and made some bold moves early on, and have felt nothing, but serenity about the process. There's no way I would ever again betray myself in going for an ideal that doesn't fit me. Stay true to who you are Lucas, your healthy heart is much needed in this worls.